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Is it something you can or cannot change? (aka, the wisdom to know the difference)
Great news, friend! Change is possible. You certainly can change yourself (whether you choose to is another matter). But you do not have...
lilyhshanks
Nov 19, 20234 min read
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Why do you struggle to change?
One way to define resistance is: “the refusal to accept or comply with something; the attempt to prevent something by action or argument.”...
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Nov 19, 20233 min read
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Accepting that I cannot change others
Reminder: Acceptance (to me) does not entail endorsing, condoning, or approving of a behavior, person, place, or thing. Rather, it is the...
lilyhshanks
Nov 19, 20233 min read
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Acceptance is key.
How would your life improve if you accepted yourself, exactly as you are today? Regardless of whether you identify as spiritual or...
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Nov 19, 20232 min read
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The freedom of commitment
Today, on July 4th – a day associated with independence in the U.S. – I challenge you to ask yourself: how can you become a tiny bit...
lilyhshanks
Jul 4, 20224 min read
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No regrets? How to forgive yourself and learn from your past to create a brighter future
Regrets, I’ve had a few, but then again, too few to mention. ~written by Paul Anka, performed by Frank Sinatra How many times have you...
lilyhshanks
May 4, 20224 min read
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